Are you unhappy about the current state of your relationship?
Is it hard to communicate with your partner? Does it feel like every conversation starts a fight?
Do you feel alone even when your partner is next to you?
Are your relationship problems bringing you down, affecting your mood, or making it hard to concentrate at work?
Do you remember the better times, back when the two of you were much more in love?
Do you deeply desire to repair the relationship and regain intimacy with your partner?